November 30, 2015

Travel + Work = ???

(For Illustration Purpose)

It has been almost 3 months since my last entry in regards with exam…
Alhamdullilah I managed to score an average grade…
My other 2 peers manage to be an excellent scorer…
In matter of fact they already leave IED for good after receiving a promotion…
Back in a title of today’s entry…
Suddenly I came across an article by BBC under Life Well Travelled series entitled Frequent Fliers…
Indeed it is a simple entry but I do felt not all of us aware about the issue…
I might not be a frequent traveller when talking about my working environment…
However being raise in a family that working with an airlines industries, I do have experience it…
Kudos to my dad for all the exposure that he did highlight to us, his daughters…

So here the entry and do enjoy and take whatever goods in it…

Business Traveller Perspectives on Living Out of a Suitcase

Being well travelled is one thing, but travelling well – and actually enjoying the journey – is another. For every employee whose job it is to stay in the office, there’s another out there on the road wishing they were back behind their desk, or better still, at home with their family rather than red-eyed on the other side of the globe.

A road warrior’s life may seem glamorous to those stuck behind their computer, but being able to hit the ground running after a long-haul flight takes stamina, practice, a good flight, and a basic understanding of physiology and aviation.

Travelling well means travelling smart and a first tip is to pick your flights carefully. Where time zones and journey distances permit, most long-haul flights will go overnight. If there is a daytime option, think about how you will use this valuable time – as you probably won’t be able to sleep. You also need to carefully consider your arrival time, particularly if it means having to work through the day while your body keeps telling you it’s bed time.

Get in the zone

Now that all business-traveller focused airlines offer flat beds in business class, overnight flights mean you can travel when your body is most amenable to sleeping and in a time-managed manner, something your boss would be proud of.
Setting your watch to local time as soon as you board is another must, according to veteran road warriors and airline crew, as it’s all part of being “in the zone”.
Some frequent fliers also have a “journey before the journey” – not just a packing ritual, but one that for some means sleep deprivation, or a long walk, run or gym session beforehand, to make sure they can properly rest on board.
Prepping for a good rest extends to when you arrive at the airport. Simply being in the sleep zone mentally as well as physically is a big step to travelling well. Many frequent fliers’ pre-flight ritual will include dinner in the lounge – again, pre-flight dining is something higher end airlines now offer in order to maximise sleep. Follow this with a shower, change out of the work clothes and into something more comfortable, and you’re all set.

To eat or not to eat

Opting out of dinner on board and putting the bed out to maximise the shut-eye seems an easy choice, but here’s the problem: airline food is a whole lot more tempting than it used to be, particularly in business class, so while few allow themselves rich food at 3am when they’re at home, some see fit to gorge themselves in the air. Investment banker and frequent flier Darius Naraghi has a simple rule:
“When I’m flying, I keep super-hydrated and I eat normally, so I skip a meal and I don’t eat dessert. It’s about being sensible and avoiding snacking – it’s best to treat the plane like the home or office. On my way home it’s different. I unwind in the lounge and allow myself a cocktail and a drink on board.”

Pack it up

Packing for a business trip is an art in itself. Roll it up, layer it, take shoes that match with formal and casual wear and never, ever, check it in is the frequent flier mantra.
Les Liddiard runs the Asia/Pacific division of a UK-based hi-tech metallurgy company and travels monthly between London, Asia and Australia. “People take too much stuff away with them that they don’t wear,” he says, adding that there’s always a laundry service in the hotel or down the street.
“I get everything in a carry-on bag, including exercise gear. Something I always carry is compression socks – get them from a good running shop. They really help to stop your feet swelling.”

Cabin crew tips

If all this seems daunting, take heart that even the professionals struggle sometimes. Cynthia Lam has been a flight attendant for Cathay Pacific for almost three years. “My first long-haul was from Hong Kong to Amsterdam and it took me all of my four days off to recover from the jet lag,” she recalls.
“Now I find myself adjusting a little bit faster, I only need one or two days. When I finish work I take a shower and rest well and I go to the gym on my days off.

“Sometimes I take a little melatonin (prescription only in the UK), but I don’t want to rely on it.”
She adds: “The key after a long-haul flight is to look fresh, to look like you haven’t even flown, take a shower and make an effort with your appearance. If you expose yourself to sunlight it helps. I try to get out in the daytime even if I’m too tired, it helps me to cope with the time zones better.”

Keep it personal

For some passengers, the best way to get over a trip is just to ‘feel the love’ that being back with the family brings. Yakov Moses, a Sydney-based fashion executive puts it succinctly:

“When I get home, I really have to be on my feet – I have a 6-year old and a 10-year old and they want the attention. That keeps me awake until it’s time to go to bed.”

He is a great believer that relationships are just as important in working life.

“I’m on a plane every month at least. Our suppliers are predominantly in Asia and I’d rather negotiate across a table than a video conferencing suite or email,” he says.

In the end, personal relationships are the reason behind most business travel and if you do it regularly, you’ll know that the secret to a good journey is a combination of canny scheduling knowledge, careful preparation, choosing a good airline and “being in the zone”.

Taken in isolation, a monthly long-haul trip might not seem too arduous, but add it up over the year and it’s a lot of time out of your life. If you’re going to be well travelled, it would be wise to learn how to travel well.

(Source: BBC - Frequent fliers http://www.bbc.com/capital/sponsored/story/20151022-frequent-fliers)

August 18, 2015

Exam oh Exam

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After the last exam in November 2012, I don’t have any exam to attend…
Except the one questionnaire that often needs to be done pre and post of most every course that I’ve attend…
So today like repeating the same feeling I’ve felt for last 3 years back…
The different the exam that I took was an order from our KSU to measure all the P&P’s English Proficiency…
This exam is like a benchmark either we need to attend a series of classes or not…
The exam is 100% done online and took place in Kirkby International College, nearby my office…
We (read: me, fellow colleagues and my boss) were send by our office driver, alhamdullilah…
No hassle on findings the parking and what’s not…
After few minutes of briefing by the lecturer, directly we’re asked to login and start to sit for the exam immediately…
The time given is 75 minutes…
To my surprise, I do finish it at the 35 minutes…
Another colleague of mine finishes his exam 1 minute after me…
As we turn around, it appears that only me and him seem to finish the exam quite early…
Immediately we leave the lab and waiting for my boss and another colleague…
Few minutes later another colleague of us came out…
So we just occupied the time by have a simple chat on various matters and the most funny things absolutely in regards with the exam…
How we tend to forget to seek an English word for “pupus”…
How the word extinction is seldom used but in the most important situation we do forgot about it…
Eventually we our boss is coming out and it turnout that she also have a same difficulties in findings a vocabulary…
At the end we do hope that we can score good marks not because we want to skip the class, its just we still a normal people who eager to have good grades…
That a nature of exam….

P/s: We had an opportunity to have a lunch with our boss and it’s a good session with the fellow colleagues of mine, alhamdullilah….

July 30, 2015

A Daddy’s Letter to his Little Girl About Her Future Husband

(Pic Credit: Virolnova.com)

Dear Cutie-Pie,

Recently, your mother and I were searching for an answer on Google. Halfway through entering the question, Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top of the list was “How to keep him interested.”

It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy and sexual, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.

And I got angry.

Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested.”

Little One, your only task is to know deeply in your soul—in that unshakeable place that isn’t rattled by rejection and loss and ego—that you are worthy of interest. (If you can remember that everyone else is worthy of interest also, the battle of your life will be mostly won. But that is a letter for another day.)

If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you.

Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting:

I don’t care if he puts his elbows on the dinner table—as long as he puts his eyes on the way your nose scrunches when you smile. And then can’t stop looking.

I don’t care if he can’t play a bit of golf with me—as long as he can play with the children you give him and revel in all the glorious and frustrating ways they are just like you.

I don’t care if he doesn’t follow his wallet—as long as he follows his heart and it always leads him back to you.

I don’t care if he is strong—as long as he gives you the space to exercise the strength that is in your heart.

I couldn’t care less how he votes—as long as he wakes up every morning and daily elects you to a place of honor in your home and a place of reverence in his heart.

I don’t care about the color of his skin—as long as he paints the canvas of your lives with brushstrokes of patience, and sacrifice, and vulnerability, and tenderness.

I don’t care if he was raised in this religion or that religion or no religion—as long as he was raised to value the sacred and to know every moment of life, and every moment of life with you, is deeply sacred.

In the end, Little One, if you stumble across a man like that and he and I have nothing else in common, we will have the most important thing in common:
You.

Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you.

Your eternally interested guy,
Daddy

P/s: I came across this open letter in Viralnova.com about few months ago. The letter just show how deeply the fatherly love towards his daughter. As I read it, I do felt that my dad would also have this kinds of feeling if the time come, inshaAllah... Above all, the main point is that just be yourself and never intend to be someone else.

July 29, 2015

To Being the Bride….

I came across this poem in IOU Blog.
When first I do read it, I do agree with every line that written in the poem.
Immediately I would like to share this masterpiece in here, my abandon blog for past year.
My last post is in 31st July 2014.
It nearly a year and alhamdullilah I managed to spill something here.
So here is the poem...

 To Being the Bride….

From cradle to being the bridal,
Her marriage is always on arrival,
Since the day she’s born,
Till she gets her own crown.

Her fantasies begin,
From the time she giggles,
When the only conversation
Is how to get Mr Wiggles.

When she finally settles,
To what she thinks twinkles,
Making her no longer
Waiver her dreamers.

She reaches her destination,
With her partner in addition,
Wishing of her mission,
Has finally completed her ambition.

As the days pass,
She dwells in confusion,
It’s absolutely nothing
she had in cognition.

Her perception,
of having him as Mohammad,
She being his Khadija,
After all was an illusion.

Slowly realizing,
She hasn’t sacrificed at all,
How could she think,
He would cry for her after all.

Here is the point,
Which I want to say to all,
Love isn’t easy
As we imagine in all.

Perfection
can never be in of its creation,
Hence expectation
Is bound to break the implications

Weakness
will always be in subjection
Hence learn to forgo
And accept the conditions

Love is a matter of situation
Created by the Majesty of Formation
To Him we belong and all the attributions
Hence, turn to Him in all your frustrations,

Not to overlook in your fascinations
Be in the state of  regular invocation
Wait for His response in obligation
As He promised He will be your commendation.

Amatullah
(http://blog.islamiconlineuniversity.com/to-being-the-bride/)